Certified Relationship Coach & Matchmaker
Matchmaker &
Relationship Coach
If your relationships keep ending up the same way, it’s not bad luck. It’s a pattern. The love you want in your life starts with the work you’ve been avoiding.
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Break free from toxic cycles.
Build the love and life you deserve.
Hi, I’m Renee Brown, a Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Specialist.
For more than a decade, I’ve worked with singles, couples, and survivors who came to me with the same question dressed differently: “why does this keep happening to me?”.
On the surface, I was creating matches and helping people find love. Love stories were unfolding. It was a great success. My clients were so happy. But underneath all these vanity metrics, proposals, and weddings, the cracks started to show. And that’s when it hit me, when I saw the bigger problem right in front of me: the whole industry was broken.
Too many were meeting partners who looked great on paper but carried unhealed wounds that turned relationships toxic. Matchmaking reduced people to superficial checklists. And nowhere was anyone addressing the deeper wounds such as childhood conditioning, narcissistic abuse, or the unhealthy patterns we unconsciously carry into every relationship.
So, I rebuilt it. I flipped the entire model, putting healing, psychology, human behaviour, and self-awareness at the very centre. My work now is about transformation before connection: helping individuals recover from narcissistic abuse, guiding couples through cycles of disconnection, and supporting singles who are truly ready to attract real love into their life.
To those who are ready to put themselves first and commit to the work, I’m so happy you’re here. Your life is about to change, big-time, in the best possible way!
Experience You Can Trust
I have more than 10+ years’ experience as a professional matchmaker and relationship coach, working with singles, couples, and narcissistic abuse survivors. I love witnessing my clients’ profound ah-ha moments when everything starts to make sense.
Certified Relationship Coach
As a certified relationship coach with tertiary qualifications in human behaviour, I don’t just look at what’s going on, on the surface, I look at patterns, and unhealed wounds. I lean on evidence-based methods to uncover what really is causing these behaviours to reoccur.
Ethical Approach That Works
I’ve reimagined the matchmaking model to be ethical, intentional, and in your best interest, even if that means slowing down. I have a compassionate yet direct approach, I’m not afraid to challenge you, but I do so with kindness. It’ll also be a lot of fun along the way.
My Purpose
I’ve watched people lose years of their lives to situations they didn’t even realise they were in or repeating. Singles telling themselves love just “isn’t part of their journey” after one too many heartbreaks or worse ‘situationships’ that left them questioning their worth. I’ve seen couples slowly become strangers under the same roof. Survivors of narcissistic abuse who have been broken down so profoundly, they start to believe chaos and control is all they deserve. I can’t accept this as normal.
My core purpose is to give people a sustainable way out of those cycles, a model of support that is ethical, grounded in psychology, and always honest, to protect people from the harm traditional dating and relationship spaces so often ignore.
Don’t expect surface-level advice or quick fixes here. Everything we do will be real, authentic, practical work that changes the way you show up in love and in life, whether you’re single, in a relationship or trying to leave a situation that isn’t right for you.
MATCHMAKING
Most people think dating is broken. It’s not. What’s broken is the way we approach it. Apps and social media have single handedly ruined intimacy, while traditional matchmakers tick boxes and ignore the core pillars of what a healthy relationship actually needs.
INDIVIDUAL COACHING
Individual coaching is where we peel back the layers to find the deeper patterns you don’t even realise are quietly running the show in all your relationships. Maybe you’re single and feel like you’re never going to find your person, or you’re in a relationship that isn’t feeling quite right.
COUPLES COACHING
Acknowledging something isn’t working in your relationship is one of the hardest, yet most powerful steps you can take. You love each other and have probably been together a long time, but never thought you’d end up here. My couples coaching is for those who want to reconnect and strengthen intimacy in their relationship.
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE
If your partner makes you doubt your own memory, your worth, your sanity, that isn’t love. It’s narcissistic abuse. I know how invisible it can feel: the world sees their charm, while behind closed doors you’re torn down piece by piece, isolated, a shell of who you once were.
Testimonials
What My Clients are Saying
What I appreciate most is her vast experience and knowledge, which she applies with an exceptional balance of empathy and practicality. Renee doesn’t just listen - she offers insights, tools, and perspectives that have helped me navigate many challenges with far greater clarity and confidence.
Over my time with her, I have noticed real and meaningful changes in how I understand myself, manage stress and anxiety, and approach social interactions and relationships. I am deeply grateful for her professionalism, warmth, and dedication.
If you are looking for a coach who is skilled, insightful, and genuinely committed to your growth, I couldn’t recommend Renee more highly.
Testimonials
What My Clients are Saying
What I appreciate most is her vast experience and knowledge, which she applies with an exceptional balance of empathy and practicality. Renee doesn’t just listen - she offers insights, tools, and perspectives that have helped me navigate many challenges with far greater clarity and confidence.
Over my time with her, I have noticed real and meaningful changes in how I understand myself, manage stress and anxiety, and approach social interactions and relationships. I am deeply grateful for her professionalism, warmth, and dedication.
If you are looking for a coach who is skilled, insightful, and genuinely committed to your growth, I couldn’t recommend Renee more highly.
Renee led me towards clarity in recognising people and circumstances that were harmful to my well-being and was pivotal in helping me deal with past trauma. What distinguishes Renee is her solution-focused approach. Her foresight allowed me to navigate my difficult healing journey effectively, transforming deep-seated pain into personal power.
She provided a "mirror" that reflected reality, shattering the illusions that kept me stuck in old patterns and outdated belief systems. Renee helped me face what I was unconsciously avoiding.
I'm grateful to Renee for being direct and straightforward in helping to answer the difficult questions I couldn't face alone. I feel significantly lighter and wholly empowered and I highly recommend Renee to anyone ready to break free and move forward.
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What My Clients are Saying
